The day started much like any other. You went about your business, going through your day as usual, until you got the news.

A death. A diagnosis. Divorce. Some other loss outside your power to change or affect.

Whatever the unwanted news, you received it.  The world dropped out from under you.

You fell, a meteor blazing through the atmosphere to plunge deep into the ocean’s abyss. You sank far beneath the surface, out of reach of light or hope or goodness.
You are now a recipient of the Terrible Knowledge, and your life will never be the same. It will always be divided between Before and After, bifurcated by a deep, lasting grief.

What do we do when we find ourselves here, lives marked by tragedy?
How do we integrate the devastation and find our way forward?
You need a guide.

You need someone who knows what life underwater is like, and how to come to the surface. Someone to help you navigate the Archipelago of Loss and to pass through the Gates of Fire.


I have made that journey. I know the confusion and pain of having your world upended, of having to fight to make sense of everything around you. I know the healthy and no-so-healthy coping skills, the wildness of loss, how one wrong comment can send you spiraling.

I see you. I know your pain.

Join me.